I've been dating this guy for 9 months, and in the begining, he helped make me happy. I should've known he wouldn't stop the nagging sad feelings I get about staying in my small home town. See I've always planned to leave and travel the world before I settled down. Ah, but he doesnt want that,he's ready to buy a house and stay in our home town (possble cause of sadness) and live there for the rest of our lives. But it's getting pretty bad, I feel like I'm starting to pull away from him, and pull towards the 2 of my most recent exes I've had. I'm obviously not happy, but I love my boyfriend as much as I feel I can love him at the point in my life, but I'm clueless as how to deal with my mixed up emotions. Anybody comment, I'm good with cronstrutive critisism.

i need advice on how not to say things that i dont mean when me and my fiance get in to a fight

It's a pretty complicated situation... I have been dating my boyfriend for almost three years now and when we're together it's been great. We have our ups and downs, of course, but we always manage to fight through it. We have a lot in common with each other and love being around each other. Everyone knows we're together and they find it difficult seeing us single or without the other. Unfortunately, we were forced to be without the other recently: A little over half a year ago, he moved back home to Norway (he was on student visa) to go to college. I don't mind the long distance relationship, but the problem is that he doesn't really plan on coming back to the States. He's going to finish school in Norway and then stay there for work. He visits his parents in the States but they don't live around where I live anymore (they moved a few years ago to Texas) so he doesn't really bother coming to me. He speculates that the next time he'll come visit me is in three to five years. With that, he kind of expects me to leave my life in the States and move to Norway with him. He expects me to drop my life after I graduate from college and leave everything behind. Half of my friends say wait while the other half says move on. I don't really know what to do. Should I move on? Or should I stick to it?

I have been dating my boyfriend for three years, but I don't know if he wants to marry me or leave me. He won't answer me if I ask him about moving our relationship forward. He may be happy with where our relationship is now, but I still like to know if he ever thinks about it. I'm also afraid that once we are both in college, he'll fall in love with someone else. He tells me that he would never do that, but I'm still worried about it.