Well, my problem is a bit complicated. I was with a guy for one year but we broke up this year.. but he still calls me up & behaves like a lover..possessive,loving & sweet.. He even talks to me about his problems.. when i don't calll him, he calls up & asks why, gets angry when his calls goes into waiting & all..he even gives me kisses & hangs out with me.. but he tellls me that i am not his gf now and he has many friends(who are girls) in facebook.. I'm not sure whether still loves me or not.. I'm a Scorpio & he's Aries!! please help!!

i have a crush on this guy from my friend circle. we've been good close friends for quite a long while and ive always felt a strong spiritual emotional mental and physical connection with him. lately tho, those feelings have become alot stronger. and i dont know what to do! he has a gf now, and i know he likes me, and he knows i like him but what do i do!? im so confused, i tested our compatibility using moonit and it gave us 85% and said the following (spot on correct) - If you could de-cheezify those vistas you see on the covers of romance novels--the ones where a rippling Fabio gazes longingly at his ladylove--that would be you guys (except you're the real-deal version. And you've got better hair). What we're trying to say is, even if this explosive chemistry were your only asset, you'd probably get along just fine. The cool part is, it's not just about the heat; you two are genuinely into each other, and you care enough to be inventive about showing your appreciation. Because he's able to be himself around you, his approach is so open and genuine that it totally puts you at ease. And your ideas--even the ones that don't pertain to the bedroom--are awesome enough that he's all, "I want to go to there." All this positivity also means you might be well-suited as friends or co-workers, but be forewarned: if you guys team up as a professional pair, you'll need to keep the smooches out of the office and your eyes on the books. It's best to be vigilant about maintaining separate worlds for business and pleasure; when you two let them mix, things could get kind of complicated. - so what do i do then hay? i need some advice. do i sit in the shadows waiting, or do i put myself out there and let him decide?

I'm a taurus but my ex is a leo. We were best friends for three years before we decided to date. We had a wonderful relationship, no bumps, no problems. Until almost 8 months later he breaks up with me. He said he wanted me to be happier with someone else!!! I've done all the talking to him about it that i can. And what's worse is he used his military persual of a carrier as another reason for the break up!.... I tried moving on but everything reminds me of him. And before i was finally close to getting him out of my mind, he called me late one night and apologized for everything, wishing me the best , and that he'll always love me. I told him i could be with him: live the marine's wife life. But he wanted better for me. So he shows interest and longing, but would rather suffer than be without me for a year before he leaves, or even be with me while he's gone?? What should i do?!

I have a friend that I have known for about 3 months now, we have gotten really close. We are both Virgos, though he is 2 years younger than me. Initially, we were attracted to each other, and we actually slept together a month ago. After wards, we agreed that neither of us is ready for a relationship right now (He is dealing with some depression and still getting over an ex, I just have intimacy issues and don't know how to be in a relationship), and that our friendship is too valuable to compromise with casual sex. We get along so well and can spend hours talking and hanging out. We had a discussion about things the other night, and he was saying that he had never been able to sleep with someone and then just be friends. There seems to be some grey area in our relationship, we both feel a strong emotional and physical connection, that we cannot act on. We are just friends, we aren't physically involved anymore. However, the physical attraction is there. Also, we both find it hard to see each other with another person romantically without feeling jealous. I know I can keep my emotions in check, but he is not sure that it will work out. He keeps saying that he is afraid of hurting me. I really want to be there for him while he is dealing with this depression, especially since I am one of the few people he talks to about it. I think it would be selfish of me to pursue a relationship with him right now, but I really want him in my life. Does anyone else have any experience with this? Is it possible for us to be such close friends considering our emotional and previous physical involvement?