My roommate is turning into a wild child
One Friday I decided to have a movie night with some friends, we were up untill 3am. One of my friends lived right across the hall from me so we walked back to our dorms together. I couldnt help but hear a lot of loud talking and laughing coming from my room, and I could hear boys. Since we're freshmen we cant have the opposite sex in our room after a certain time. I walked in the room to notice several cans of beer and bottles of liquor all over my side of the room. She had these boys in there that werent even students at our school. I told every body to leave but the boys stayed. One boy she didnt even know was 21 and he was the one who brought the drinks and was also drunk. When I asked him to leave he started yelling, cursing and even threatened me. I was terrified and extremely upset. My roommate has been my "best" friend since 8th grade, and didnt even take me or my feelings into consideration at all. I even confronted her and she denied everything! Now she walks around all pissed off at me and talks about me to her "new" friends all the time, although I did NOTHING wrong in the first place. Please Help Me.
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Well being a girl i knw hw u feelin bt dis kinda attitud s cmmn 2 frnds whum v r vry close2 n whum v mk dpndent n us by listnin2 n solvin all der prblms, i ve gone thru sch ppl & my sggstn 2 u thru my own exprience s let go off her ,she s 2 high & wild spiritd 2 cre abt ur feelns & way2slfsh so its tym u lft hr & muvd on wid ur lyf coz u ve gt lotza imp thngs 2do dn cre 4sch drastic idiots.
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Three’s Company
Can a man and his ex-girlfriend and his ex-wife live together amicably in the same home?
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I dont feel theres any chance of him getting out with his life!!What will happen when a new woman comes around?Would you warn her or not tell your stories? No way especially if he left the ex wife for the ex girlfriend!
comment by Debbie Johnson at 7:24 am
Help! My roommate turned into my frenemy
Best friend/roommate blow-outLast year my best friend/roommate and I were closer than anything. However, this year i realized that she had been treating me poorly by always nagging me and getting jealous whenever she wasn't the center of attention. She also became very self-centered and was not there when an awful tragedy happened in my life. In general, she just makes me feel terrible whenever we are together. I really just want to cut her out of my life but I made the mistake of letting her live with me next semester. Also, we share quite a few friends. Should I try cutting her out of my life slowly even though sometimes I think about the good times that we had?
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Well I guess if she really makes you feel bad you could just try and cut her out of your life but if you think your going to be okay just give her a little bit of space. Well good luckC:.
comment by meghan at 3:41 am
Loser for a Roommate
My roommate's a loserI'm pretty hard up for money so I put up an ad on Craigslist for a roommate and he seemed fully normal, no credit issues, no visible tattoos, trackmarks or nose rings and actually has a job. What I didn't know was that he's a Dungeons and Dragons-style L-O-S-E-R. The guy is never out, which means he's constantly hanging out on my couch in his boxers watching CSI marathons. He's well on his way to being the 40 Year Old Virgin. And now my apartment smells like a combo of my junior high school locker room and aged cheese. We're around the same age so it's massively awkward I'm not asking him to hang out or introducing him to any of my friends. Not to mention it's a serious cockblocker situation when I bring anyone home.
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Look at it this way: At least he doesn’t wear your clothes, steal your girlfriend, and hangout & talk about you with your Mom. Having a roommate is not just about what’s convenient for yourself by someone helping you with your rent….you are helping them out too. Be a big person and don’t give someone a tough break because they aren’t a good candidate for the Real World show!
It’s a tough road, having roommates, that’s for sure! But no one says you need to be best friends with your roommate; sometimes, on the contrary. It’s nice to have an opposite personality living with you. It gives something refreshing when ur buddies aren’t answering their phones or you just would rather have a night in, whining about your girlfriend. Find a way to enjoy yourself; if you give a little, you’ll be amazed. In my opinion, you’re taking it too personal. If lifestyles are colliding, I suggest you go have a beer/meal together (err somewhere you both haven’t been or will see anyone you know) and talk it over. Neutral places work wonders and make things more fair. Sometimes it’s easy to get carried away when there’s pent up frustrations. Set down some dealbreakers for the both of you. Believe it or not, he probably has a list for you as well 
! Be mindful that, 1. it could be worse! 2. he already lives with you; it’s easier work it out and working it out says a lot about your character. Compromise is a two-way street!
ps. from personal experience, roommate situations if not dealt with promptly AND fairly haunt you like the plague and make you look bad to others; not to mention ruin your sanctuary with discord and financial setbacks. Your attitude now can really set the tone for your future living situations. If that just won’t work, at least you did your best and surely you know what is compatible for you on the shared living situation…Good luck.
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