Love at first sight
Adulterous situationI WAS NEVER THE ONE TO BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT TILL I MET THIS ONE DUDE...UNFORTUNATELY HE IS MARRIED, BUT HAS NO TYPE OF RELATIONS WITH HIS WIFE..AS TIME PROGRESSED OUR FRIENSDSHIP PROGRESSED TO SOEMTHIN OUT OF THIS WORLD OUR RELATIONSHIP TOO...NOW THINGS ARE KIND OF ROCKY ND I FEEL LIKE HE HAS GIVEN UP...SHOULD I????
If your use of CAPS is any indication, it seems your situation with this guy is super intense! It's great you were able to really connect with someone like that. You probably want us to give you our stamp of approval to go ahead and pursue this guy, but we can't condone breaking up an (unhappy) home. And we're not so sure his home is that unhappy in the first place. Yes, it seems he felt something for you, but he's also apparently trying to make it work with his wife. And you've fallen for the quintessential line that cheaters always dish out, "I'm not having any relations with my wife." They're probably not shagging like minx but they do sleep in the same bed and get it on from time to time, that's for sure. Plus, it doesn't seem like he's looking to leave her anytime soon. Use all that energy and excitement from your experience with him as momentum to start something fresh with a guy who's available.
What do you think?
What others are saying
youre getting taken for a ride
comment by margeaux at 7:52 am
My guess is he has given up, and he has gotten everything out of your relationship that he wanted, and it’s time to go back to the wife before she suspects anything. So YES, you should give up and find someone who is 1) available (married is married, sex or no sex!) and 2) worth your time! Don’t sell yourself short, cause when you do, you usually get no respect…and we all deserve respect!
comment by Meowmix79 at 9:12 pm
I’m sorry but you’ve been had. No matter how unhappy someone says they are in a relationship, it’s never really over if they’re still married to and living with the person they “no longer love”.
comment by Valerya at 2:58 pm