Secret Crush

Scared to Stray Here's our take on the whole issue:
It sounds like you're on the precipice of a huge decision in your life. Remember, cheating is a conscious decision that you can decide to make... or you can decide to re-commit yourself to your relationship with your husband. Cheating doesn't just "happen" to people, even though everyone tries to use that excuse. It's exactly those little things you mentioned, like too much PDA, lingering hands and inappropriate comments that place the seed of steamy adulterousness in your mind. Put your efforts into regaining that tear-your-clothes-off feeling with your hubbie instead. If you really try to do this, and it turns out he's too dumb to make you feel as sexy and desirable as you are, then let him know he's on the verge of losing you. At least at that point you'll know you tried. If you decide to move on, just don't go for that friend of his, he sounds like a total douchebag.