toxic girlfriend

Dating a Train Wreck

I have recently been dating this girl that likes to have a good time. By having a good time I mean she's constantly getting high, drinking, smoking... will do whatever illicit drug is infront oher. I have asked her if she thinks the world is ending or something because I can't for the life of me understand why this would be appealing for her. We generally have a great time when we are together without the chemical assistance. I would like to have something legit with this girl but am getting worried about our long term prospects. Right now I feel like I am dating Keith Richards but in a tight package. Should I enjoy myself for now and not get to serious or should I kick this Amy Winehouse wannabe to the curb?

Here's our take on the whole issue:
Wow, looks like you've got your hands full. We all have a tendency to get a little crazy when we're just getting to know someone. But courtships shouldn't involve raiding a medicine cabinet or two. The road you're going down with this girl means you might lose your livelihood, friends, family and even your mind. And you've got to start wondering why she needs to be so heavily medicated to the point where she can't actually see or hear you to hang out with you. If you're into crazy and don't have much need for sleep, by all means go for the short fling with the bad girl. But just watch out: if you accidentally fall for her, you're in for a long drama-fueled relationship. According to our resident psychologist Dr Block, people drawn to drugs are attempting to anesthetize psychic pain. So she's probably got a trip to rehab and a whole lot of therapy ahead of her before she can have something real with you.

What do you think?

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comment by Katherinafin at 5:38 pm

Enjoy your life, and don’t waste your time. After all life is short, especially if you continue hanging out with this crazy.

comment by suna at 9:16 am

I think you wanna do the right thing and that sometimes doing the right thing can be challenging you obviously care for her, but and there’s that “but” and the “but” thing I feel is about you, I feel you Know what to do, do you believe its the right thing to do, support what ever you decide

comment by Tamau at 2:45 am

unless you are looking for misery, move on. See whiuch way she is going and go the opposite until neither knows where the other is. As long as she is on drugs or alcohol, yoiu can’t know who she is except an addict. She has no potential for a meaningful relationship. Only trouble.

comment by joe las at 5:15 pm

drop her. fast.

comment by robbie at 4:03 pm