By: Lorie

Lorie — Sun, 03 Oct 2010 15:00:00 +0000

I feel for Courtney. Her childhood was so messed up and emotionally deprived, for her to have turned out to be a good Mom would have required a miracle. Just because she is unable to care for her child does not mean Courtney is okay with losing custody of her daughter. I believe the situation adds more torment to an already tormented soul. Like my poor mother, life did not equip Courtney to be able to properly nurture her child. I am not making excuses for anybody here, I am stating an obvious fact. Women with abandonment issues really struggle with being mothers themselves. I knew this instinctively, that is why I have no children. As an adult I now see my mother both being a toxic Mom, and watch her tear herself up over it. It’s a vicious cycle that continues though I am nearly fifty, and my mother nearly eighty years old. I long for healing for us both, but am unable to face being hurt by her yet again in order to make peace. Women with abandonment issues often find they want so badly to be good Moms, but find they have great difficulty overcoming their own childhood lack of love, security, and support, as they are still looking for that in their own lives.

By: Ray

Ray — Sun, 28 Mar 2010 03:50:57 +0000

yes, and we all know what kind of a banged up job they did raising their drug using son Kurt and how he wound up

By: deepak

deepak — Mon, 21 Dec 2009 13:40:50 +0000

scary people like that even have kids

By: leroy

leroy — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 02:17:20 +0000

that’s just cold

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